Fame-OUS or Fame-WHORE?

Fame-OUS or Fame-WHORE?

Thousand of Facebook likes, tons of followers and many admirers? “Oh you might be popular!” This is what other people say to you when you have these. But what’s the point?

Does it earn you profit? Yes if you are an actress or a model that shows up in television and published in magazines. But no if you’re just a simple kid in school. Snapshots of your beautiful face or fit and sexy body posted on networking sites like Facebook earning thousands of likes from people from different places. But what’s the use? A well kid like us in this generation likes to expose ourselves to other people, to make friends or maybe to be discovered.

The good side of earning attention from others is you feel happy and wanted. But the bad side is when you get used to it and when it somehow stops or fade you will seek for it and make way to be noticed again, it’s like an illness that makes you eager for attention.

Severe effects of this is becoming fake and doing new things to pretend that you are into the new trends just to stay on top. Some transforms to hideous monsters that becomes arrogant and self-conceited to the point they underestimate people because they know they are better. Arrogance and too much self-confidence will make you a freak, some what called attention seeker or fame whore.

Nobody wants to be called that way. And you wouldn’t want to unconsciously turn into a beast inside a precious face. Being blessed with a pretty face that is in demand to the public is a gift from above that should be used with responsibility and limitations. You don’t have to use people to be famous and you definitely don’t have to pull other people down so you would go up and outshine them.

If you are popular then you are, no need to spread to the whole world how popular you are and to vaunt about it. It’s not what famous people do. Never let your feet float even an inch away from the ground.

Your Insecure, Don’t know what for :)

Your Insecure, Don’t know what for

Girls and boys in our age experience emotional problems like insecurity we can’t deny the fact that there are times that we lose self-confidence.

Do you experience that feeling of thinking perplexedly on what you’re suppose to wear and how you’re supposed to look so you won’t be left out or something? Well teenagers like us often encounter incidents like that which confuse us to death. We always want to look our best of course, but the thinking that we should outshine the people around us is a big no no.

Seeing other girls with blemish free skin and pimple free faces with fair complexions might let you say “I want to be like her.” Just because of that or boys with handsome faces, cool shirts, awesome friends and tons of pretty admirers  might let a boy think that he wants to be just like that guy. A little too jealous? A little bit insecure?  We all encounter this type of feeling.

As the quote goes “Insecurity Kills!” but not literally. Being insecure to one person kills you not them. But I don’t mean you’ll die or something. It kills your self-confidence and your esteem, you can’t deny the truth about getting insecure and people who already got over insecurity easily recognize it by: Giving exaggerated compliments to that person whom you think is better than you, being too arrogant, competitive, defensive, materialistic, being a copy-cat and the most popular way of showing the world your insecurities is back-stabbing that person and gossiping to drag this person down.

If you think befriending that person would release your bubble of insecurity to burst and vanish you’re wrong. Using this strategy is so not gonna work you will only be fake and the so called “plastic” so this is definitely not the right procedure.

Kids in our generation feel this, sometimes we get to the point where we fight and compete with other people to show them we are better and we mention their flaws that we don’t have just to intimidate them and this is definitely not going to make you a better person. You might say that you’re just telling the truth about him or her but you don’t have to reveal her flaws in front of many people, what are you a bully? No? Good. So we should manage our insecurities and deal with it so if possible we can lessen it.

This emotional sickness of modern kids like us cannot be easily cured. If you can manage and control your insecurities alone then be it but if you want to get help make sure you’ll be with a trustworthy friend and non-judgmental too like your moms, they give the most effective advices that will surely help us and take away this virus from self pity and jealousy.

----My very own :) Based on experience I guess ? :))

Imagiiiiiine :o

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Hmmm... I can't imagine the life of being a Model or andArtist. Well yea when I was a kid I want to be one but there's something bugging me in life. I love to expose myself to the public and dance and sometimes SING :) Well I'm not a good singer but ... never mind. Ugh what's new ? Well there's a thought in my mind that bothers me sometimes and that is the dream that I'm dreaming of. I'm crazy -_-" Well there is no rule that you can't dream big right ? :)) You know what I mean. :P --- Toodles

Confidence. ;)

There are times that you want to look your best. Specially in different occasions where you will encounter girls like you that really have that sense of style. But there's nothing better than a girl with a simple outfit that fits the occasion and carries it with confidence. Wait look, confidence is different from a self-conceited freako so you better watch it. And ! You don't have to compete with others or you might look like an over decorated Christmas tree or something like that. ~ "The simpler the better."

Late Halloween Special LOL

Happy Halloween ! ♥ Edited this photo at Picmonkey. I'm with my schoolmates. Trish and Nikki :) Pretty huh ? :)) I knoooooow ! XD Keep bluffing. Ladies in Black LOL. ~

After a hundred years.

It's been ... so long since I've posted a blog. Well I've kind of busy ? I guess ? :) Studies of course and also many things :) Twitter is so addicting for me though, and Facebook ? Hmm not so fun anymore but still I use it to communicate duh. :))) Happy Day ! ♥