Your Insecure, Don’t know what for :)

Your Insecure, Don’t know what for

Girls and boys in our age experience emotional problems like insecurity we can’t deny the fact that there are times that we lose self-confidence.

Do you experience that feeling of thinking perplexedly on what you’re suppose to wear and how you’re supposed to look so you won’t be left out or something? Well teenagers like us often encounter incidents like that which confuse us to death. We always want to look our best of course, but the thinking that we should outshine the people around us is a big no no.

Seeing other girls with blemish free skin and pimple free faces with fair complexions might let you say “I want to be like her.” Just because of that or boys with handsome faces, cool shirts, awesome friends and tons of pretty admirers  might let a boy think that he wants to be just like that guy. A little too jealous? A little bit insecure?  We all encounter this type of feeling.

As the quote goes “Insecurity Kills!” but not literally. Being insecure to one person kills you not them. But I don’t mean you’ll die or something. It kills your self-confidence and your esteem, you can’t deny the truth about getting insecure and people who already got over insecurity easily recognize it by: Giving exaggerated compliments to that person whom you think is better than you, being too arrogant, competitive, defensive, materialistic, being a copy-cat and the most popular way of showing the world your insecurities is back-stabbing that person and gossiping to drag this person down.

If you think befriending that person would release your bubble of insecurity to burst and vanish you’re wrong. Using this strategy is so not gonna work you will only be fake and the so called “plastic” so this is definitely not the right procedure.

Kids in our generation feel this, sometimes we get to the point where we fight and compete with other people to show them we are better and we mention their flaws that we don’t have just to intimidate them and this is definitely not going to make you a better person. You might say that you’re just telling the truth about him or her but you don’t have to reveal her flaws in front of many people, what are you a bully? No? Good. So we should manage our insecurities and deal with it so if possible we can lessen it.

This emotional sickness of modern kids like us cannot be easily cured. If you can manage and control your insecurities alone then be it but if you want to get help make sure you’ll be with a trustworthy friend and non-judgmental too like your moms, they give the most effective advices that will surely help us and take away this virus from self pity and jealousy.

----My very own :) Based on experience I guess ? :))